The Christ-Centered Shift That Changes Your Homeschool: If homeschooling has started to feel like constant correction, constant reminders, and constant evaluation, you’re not alone. Many of us begin with good intentions—and then slowly find ourselves managing our kids like a project. But TJEd’s third Key of Great Teaching offers a different path: Inspire, not require. […]
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One day your child will do hard things without you. That’s the goal. Not perfect checklists. Not a spotless transcript. A person who can think, choose, persevere, and lead themselves when nobody is watching. That’s why the most powerful thing you can become in your homeschool isn’t a professor—it’s a mentor. If you’ve ever thought,
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Have you ever had a homeschool day where you’re doing “all the right things”… and it still feels like you’re failing? The kids are dragging, you’re pushing, the tension is rising, and you find yourself thinking, Why is this so hard? Here’s what I’ve learned after years of homeschooling and coaching: when your homeschool starts
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Homeschooling has a funny way of convincing moms that they can’t afford to pause. There’s always one more lesson to prep, one more child to help, one more mess to clean, one more plan to fix. And in the name of being “responsible,” we often do the exact thing that makes homeschooling harder: we keep
Sometimes homeschooling can feel like a tug-of-war. You’re on one side, holding a vision for deep, meaningful Christ-centered homeschooling. Your child is on the other side, pulling for freedom, fun, and “just getting it done.” You tighten the rope with more rules. They pull harder with more resistance or “bare minimum” effort. Everyone ends the
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One of Stephen Covey’s most powerful habits is simple to say and hard to live: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” At Christmas—when emotions, expectations, and schedules are all dialed up—this habit becomes a beautiful way to make your Christ-centered homeschooling feel more like the manger and less like the mall. And underneath
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If you’ve homeschooled for more than five minutes, you already know:Everyone has opinions.Everyone has needs.And they don’t always match. Stephen Covey’s Win–Win principle gives homeschool moms a simple way to handle this without power struggles, resentment, or giving up what matters most. It’s not complicated.But it is different from what most of us grew up
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If homeschool feels like ping-pong—one day you’re the drill sergeant, the next you’re the doormat—there’s a steadier path. Psychologist Diana Baumrind described three parenting styles—authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative—based on how parents blend warmth (responsiveness) with structure (demandingness). Maccoby & Martin later added a fourth: uninvolved/neglectful. Because home and school share space in homeschooling, your “style
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Embracing the Homeschool You Never Wanted For the mom who feels nudged by God to homeschool but doesn’t really want to (and has plenty of reasons why she’s “not a fit”). This is not a pep talk—it’s a practical, faith-centered reframing of what success can look like, how to use your actual strengths, and how
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In a recent podcast interview with Kathy Mellor, we explored some of the cultural forces shaping today’s world—ideas like Marxism, Postmodernism, and Wokeism. These worldviews affect the way people see truth, power, and identity, and they explain a lot about why conversations feel so polarized right now. But our conversation didn’t stop with just defining
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