“Sometimes all it takes is one person who doesn’t give up on you.” Have you ever looked into the eyes of a defiant child and wondered: How do I even begin to reach them? Beneath the eye rolls, shutdowns, or outbursts—what’s really going on? This week I watched Brave the Dark by Angel Studios. It […]
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What if the way we try to encourage our kids is actually doing the opposite? In our effort to boost confidence, we often say things like, “Good job!” or “You’re so smart!” But research—and timeless educational philosophy—shows that praise can create approval addiction, while appreciation builds resilience, motivation, and inner strength. Let’s unpack the powerful
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At The Joyful Homeschool, we believe that the heart of homeschooling isn’t in rigid schedules or perfect checklists—it’s in sparking a lifelong love of learning. But here’s the tricky part: too much freedom, and your kids might feel lost. Too much control, and their curiosity can burn out fast. This post is your roadmap to
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Have you ever wondered… Why does one of your kids breeze through schoolwork……while another acts like math is a personal attack? Or maybe you’ve noticed: “Why can I show up for everyone else—but struggle to finish what I planned?” You’re not alone. There’s a reason behind it. And it’s not laziness, selfishness, or bad habits.
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In parenting, connection matters more than correction. When children feel truly seen, heard, and understood, trust grows. Today, let’s explore five powerful tools that can transform your relationship with your child. These tools come from The Mentor’s Handbook by Aneladee Milne but are found in many great parenting and mentoring approaches. 1. Honoring: Seeing Your
As our children grow into their teenage years, a natural shift happens. They become more independent.They begin to develop their own identities.This is exactly what we want! In my homeschool, I’ve found it crucial to honor this development.That means shifting from the role of teacher to facilitator.One of the best ways to do this?Incorporate outside
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Over the years, my husband and I have diligently tried to keep up with regular interviews with our children. It’s been a journey of consistency—sometimes waxing, sometimes waning. But I’ve noticed a pattern. When things get rocky with one of my kids, it’s usually when we haven’t been connecting in these regular conversations. Through these
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Who are you? Who are your children? Truly? Have you ever found yourself loving your children a bit conditionally? Do you withhold your affection when your children are not behaving in the way you desire? Do you ever feel like YOU are not enough and unconsciously try to prove you are enough? That you are
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In the world of education and homeschooling, we often use the terms “teaching” and “mentoring” interchangeably. However, a subtle yet crucial difference sets them apart. Let’s explore what distinguishes these two roles and why mentoring can be a game-changer in your homeschooling journey. Teaching: Focusing on Knowledge At its core, teaching is all about knowledge
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Do you ever find yourself in a transactional relationship with those you love most? Often when I have chosen to spread myself too thin, I find myself “seeing” my family members as “objects” rather than as humans. I act as if they are pawns in my world that should move according to MY “wise” plans.
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