One of Stephen Covey’s most powerful habits is simple to say and hard to live: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” At Christmas—when emotions, expectations, and schedules are all dialed up—this habit becomes a beautiful way to make your Christ-centered homeschooling feel more like the manger and less like the mall. And underneath […]
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If you’ve homeschooled for more than five minutes, you already know:Everyone has opinions.Everyone has needs.And they don’t always match. Stephen Covey’s Win–Win principle gives homeschool moms a simple way to handle this without power struggles, resentment, or giving up what matters most. It’s not complicated.But it is different from what most of us grew up
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One of the most freeing truths for homeschool moms is Stephen Covey’s Habit 3: Put First Things First. It’s simple, but it’s life-changing. Covey invites us to stop reacting to urgency and start aligning with importance. And when you’re building a Christ-centered homeschooling lifestyle, this principle becomes the difference between burnout and peace. Urgent things
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Building a Christ-Centered Homeschool on Purpose Have you ever finished a busy homeschool day and thought, “We did a lot… but did we build what really matters?” That’s the question Stephen Covey’s Habit 2—Begin with the End in Mind—invites us to ask. Choosing the Wall Before You Climb Covey uses a simple image: a ladder.You
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Choose your response, shape your homeschool. “Verily I say, men should be anxiously engaged in a good cause, and do many things of their own free will…” — Doctrine & Covenants 58:27 What “proactive” really means.For the next few weeks, I will be focusing on the habits from Stephen Covey. We will start with “Be
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Create Supportive Patterns That Stick Have you ever caught yourself reacting in a way you didn’t mean to… again? Maybe your child pushes back during reading, and you raise your voice—before you even think. Or maybe the day goes off-track early, and your brain whispers, “Welp, it’s ruined now.” Those aren’t isolated moments. They’re patterns—automatic
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Embracing the Homeschool You Never Wanted For the mom who feels nudged by God to homeschool but doesn’t really want to (and has plenty of reasons why she’s “not a fit”). This is not a pep talk—it’s a practical, faith-centered reframing of what success can look like, how to use your actual strengths, and how
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You know those moments when you try to “think positive” and five minutes later you’re…snapping at the people you love? Been there. For the longest time I thought I just needed a better mantra, a better plan, a better…something. Then I realized I was trying to out-think feelings I hadn’t actually felt yet. Learning to
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Every homeschool mom faces it. Your child reacts by dragging their feet, complaining, or outright refusal. When this happens, it’s easy to feel like something is wrong—with your child, your plan, or maybe even with you. But here’s the truth: resistance is normal. It doesn’t mean homeschooling isn’t working. In fact, it’s often a powerful
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As homeschool moms, we carry a lot—lessons, meals, emotions, expectations. It’s easy to reach a breaking point and wonder: Am I supposed to keep pushing, or am I allowed to let go? That question often leads us into confusion because two very different paths can look similar on the surface: defeat and surrender. Both involve
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