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Building a Home Where Everyone Takes Ownership
Homeschooling is MessyWhen your house is “lived in” all day, messes are inevitable. The goal isn’t a clean house. The real goal is to teach life skills, stewardship, and responsibility. When kids learn to contribute, they become competent, self-sufficient, and service-oriented adults. Words shape culture. Instead of saying, “Help mom
Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset
What is a Growth Mindset? A growth mindset means you believe you can improve with effort and practice.It sounds like: What is a Fixed Mindset? A fixed mindset means you think abilities can’t change.It sounds like: Why Does This Matter? With a fixed mindset, kids give up when it’s hard.With
Transform Challenges into Triumphs
As a certified life coach, one of the most transformative tools I use in my work with homeschool moms is Brooke Castillo’s CTFAR model. This simple yet powerful framework helps us understand how our thoughts influence our emotions, actions, and results. It’s been a game-changer for my clients and my
How the 7 Habits Can Transform Your Homeschool
Homeschooling is amazing. But let’s be real—it’s also a lot. You’re juggling academics, chores, relationships, and your own sanity. That’s where Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families comes in. These simple principles can help you bring more peace and purpose to your homeschool. Let’s break it down. 1.
Finding Outside Mentors for Our Teenagers
As our children grow into their teenage years, a natural shift happens. They become more independent.They begin to develop their own identities.This is exactly what we want! In my homeschool, I’ve found it crucial to honor this development.That means shifting from the role of teacher to facilitator.One of the best
The 3 Keys to Self-Compassion for Homeschool Moms
Homeschooling is a beautiful journey, but it can also be tough. It’s easy to get caught up in guilt, self-criticism, and comparison. But there’s a better way: self-compassion. Kristin Neff, a leading expert on self-compassion, breaks it down into three parts. Let’s explore how these can help you as a
Feeling Overwhelmed? Let’s Take a Deep Breath Together
First off, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. You’re in good company—most of us have been there! Homeschooling can be a beautiful journey, but wow, does it come with a lot to juggle. And those moments of overwhelm? They’re real. So, Let’s Talk About That Overwhelm Maybe you’ve got
Build Trust Through Interviews
Over the years, my husband and I have diligently tried to keep up with regular interviews with our children. It’s been a journey of consistency—sometimes waxing, sometimes waning. But I’ve noticed a pattern. When things get rocky with one of my kids, it’s usually when we haven’t been connecting in
Boys and Girls Learn Differently: Here’s What You Need to Know
Let’s Talk About Hearing Girls hear better than boys. Especially those higher pitches. What does this mean for learning? Your son isn’t ignoring you. He might genuinely not hear you from across the room. Move closer when giving important instructions to boys. Simple as that. Movement Matters Watch a classroom
Building a Home Where Everyone Takes Ownership
Homeschooling is MessyWhen your house is “lived in” all day, messes are inevitable. The goal isn’t a clean house. The real goal is to teach life skills, stewardship, and responsibility. When kids learn to contribute, they become competent, self-sufficient, and service-oriented adults. Words shape culture. Instead of saying, “Help mom
Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset
What is a Growth Mindset? A growth mindset means you believe you can improve with effort and practice.It sounds like: What is a Fixed Mindset? A fixed mindset means you think abilities can’t change.It sounds like: Why Does This Matter? With a fixed mindset, kids give up when it’s hard.With
Transform Challenges into Triumphs
As a certified life coach, one of the most transformative tools I use in my work with homeschool moms is Brooke Castillo’s CTFAR model. This simple yet powerful framework helps us understand how our thoughts influence our emotions, actions, and results. It’s been a game-changer for my clients and my
How the 7 Habits Can Transform Your Homeschool
Homeschooling is amazing. But let’s be real—it’s also a lot. You’re juggling academics, chores, relationships, and your own sanity. That’s where Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families comes in. These simple principles can help you bring more peace and purpose to your homeschool. Let’s break it down. 1.
Finding Outside Mentors for Our Teenagers
As our children grow into their teenage years, a natural shift happens. They become more independent.They begin to develop their own identities.This is exactly what we want! In my homeschool, I’ve found it crucial to honor this development.That means shifting from the role of teacher to facilitator.One of the best
The 3 Keys to Self-Compassion for Homeschool Moms
Homeschooling is a beautiful journey, but it can also be tough. It’s easy to get caught up in guilt, self-criticism, and comparison. But there’s a better way: self-compassion. Kristin Neff, a leading expert on self-compassion, breaks it down into three parts. Let’s explore how these can help you as a
Feeling Overwhelmed? Let’s Take a Deep Breath Together
First off, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. You’re in good company—most of us have been there! Homeschooling can be a beautiful journey, but wow, does it come with a lot to juggle. And those moments of overwhelm? They’re real. So, Let’s Talk About That Overwhelm Maybe you’ve got
Build Trust Through Interviews
Over the years, my husband and I have diligently tried to keep up with regular interviews with our children. It’s been a journey of consistency—sometimes waxing, sometimes waning. But I’ve noticed a pattern. When things get rocky with one of my kids, it’s usually when we haven’t been connecting in
Boys and Girls Learn Differently: Here’s What You Need to Know
Let’s Talk About Hearing Girls hear better than boys. Especially those higher pitches. What does this mean for learning? Your son isn’t ignoring you. He might genuinely not hear you from across the room. Move closer when giving important instructions to boys. Simple as that. Movement Matters Watch a classroom
Aligning Ourselves with Truth: The Essence of True Education
In the pursuit of true education, aligning ourselves with truth stands as a paramount principle, guiding our journey toward enlightenment and empowerment. As Jeffrey R. Holland eloquently stated, “Let us educate ourselves. Light is not the absence of darkness; rather, darkness is the absence of light. Light and truth exist
Facing the Crisis Cycle with a Classical Liberal Arts Education
As I prepared for a leadership training lecture on historical cycles from Strauss and Howe’s The Fourth Turning, I found valuable insights on these cycles in Thomas Jefferson Education for Teens by DeMille and Brooks. According to this book, the traditional path of graduating from college and pursuing a stable
Elements and Purpose of a Meaningful Education
Benjamin Franklin said, “Learning to serve God, family, and community is the aim and end of all true learning.” The true purpose of education is to bless humanity with the knowledge and wisdom we’ve attained. It is deeper than just getting a good-paying job. The prevailing education model today often
The Power of Mentoring: A Deeper Connection in Homeschooling
In the world of education and homeschooling, we often use the terms “teaching” and “mentoring” interchangeably. However, a subtle yet crucial difference sets them apart. Let’s explore what distinguishes these two roles and why mentoring can be a game-changer in your homeschooling journey. Teaching: Focusing on Knowledge At its core,
Fostering Independent Thinkers Through Family Discussions
Embarking on a family vacation, my sixteen-year-old son asked for games on his phone to fill the airplane hours. Instead of offering a quick parental decree, I seized the opportunity for a meaningful discussion. This incident prompted reflection on the significance of teaching our children how to think independently and
Timeless Treasures: The Importance of Classics in Homeschooling
When it comes to homeschooling, we are given a unique opportunity to shape the educational experiences of our children. One way to make that journey more enriching and profound is by introducing them to the world of classics. Classics, these timeless treasures, have a remarkable impact on the minds and
Consistency Unveiled: Nurturing Harmony and Productivity in Homeschooling Older Youth
In the journey of homeschooling older youth, the key to fostering a harmonious and productive environment lies in consistency. It’s not about the nature of the child; it’s about the patterns we create through unwavering commitment. As a mother of a sixteen-year-old with a strong-willed and independent spirit, I can
Focus on Progression
Homeschooling, while rewarding, comes with its fair share of challenges and moments of uncertainty. As parents, it’s our responsibility to guide our children and help them grow into their best selves. But what if we shifted our focus from our children’s weaknesses to fostering progression and leveraging their strengths? Let’s
Launching from Strengths–Seeing the Genius in Your Child
In the ever-evolving world of homeschooling, it’s essential to look beyond the traditional approach to education. Our journey as homeschooling parents is a unique one, and it’s vital that we embrace a holistic perspective when it comes to our children’s growth and development. Let’s dive into the idea of launching
“Encouraging Students to Own Their Education and Why It Matters.”
As parents, we often think we have control over our children’s learning outcomes. However, this belief can sometimes be misleading. In psychology, there’s a term for this misconception called illusory control. It refers to the belief that we have control over events or outcomes when, in fact, we don’t. Trying
“How Do You Know You Are Teaching Your Child What They Are Supposed to Know?”
As a home-school mother, I have been asked this question on multiple occasions. I believe the question is sincere and well-intentioned. We are cultured to believe there is a list of what each of our children needs to know to be successful in life. When I first started homeschooling, I
Teaching from Rest
Resting in God’s Grace Imagine starting each homeschooling day with a sense of peace and confidence, knowing that you’re supported by God’s abundant grace. This is where we shift from anxiety to trust, from striving to surrender. It’s about inviting God into our daily rhythms and trusting His guidance for
Discover the Power of the GAIN Mentality in Homeschooling
Are You in the GAP or the GAIN? Do you often feel like you are “running behind” in your efforts to homeschool your children? That what you are doing is not enough? Do you tend to compare yourself to other homeschool mamas and compare your weaknesses to their strengths? Do
Embracing Grace and Kicking Out Resentment
Do you ever find yourself overwhelmed by the weight of responsibility? Do you feel like you’re carrying the world’s weight on your shoulders, with no end in sight? Do you ever feel like if you don’t do it, no one else will? Trust me, you’re not alone. I’ve found myself
How to Be A Miserable Mom
I heard this quote today attributed to Eckhart Tolle, “Stress is trying to be there when you are here.” How often in our homeschools do we make ourselves miserable by trying to be somewhere else different than our current reality? We should ourselves… Byron Katie said, “When you argue with
Are Your Primary Beliefs Serving You and Your Family?
Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf, a member of the Quorum of Twelve Apostles for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, said, “The “truths” we cling to shape the quality of our societies as well as our individual characters. All too often these “truths” are based on incomplete and inaccurate
The Power of Presence: Why Homeschool Moms Need Meditation
“We meditate to get good at life, not to get good at meditation.”– Emily Fletcher Meditation isn’t about perfection.It’s about creating space.Space for calm.Space for intentionality.Space for God. Why Meditate? Life as a homeschool mom can feel overwhelming.You’re juggling lessons, meals, emotions, and endless to-dos.Meditation offers a way to pause.To
Simplify to Amplify
As we get ready to start our new year, I invite you to get clear on the things that matter most to you. Take a sheet of paper and write down the top three reasons you homeschool. Does your schedule focus on your most important “why” for homeschooling? What is
Consistency Unveiled: Nurturing Harmony and Productivity in Homeschooling Older Youth
In the journey of homeschooling older youth, the key to fostering a harmonious and productive environment lies in consistency. It’s not about the nature of the child; it’s about the patterns we create through unwavering commitment. As a mother of a sixteen-year-old with a strong-willed and independent spirit, I can
Simplify to Amplify
As we get ready to start our new year, I invite you to get clear on the things that matter most to you. Take a sheet of paper and write down the top three reasons you homeschool. Does your schedule focus on your most important “why” for homeschooling? What is
Focus on Progression
Homeschooling, while rewarding, comes with its fair share of challenges and moments of uncertainty. As parents, it’s our responsibility to guide our children and help them grow into their best selves. But what if we shifted our focus from our children’s weaknesses to fostering progression and leveraging their strengths? Let’s
Launching from Strengths–Seeing the Genius in Your Child
In the ever-evolving world of homeschooling, it’s essential to look beyond the traditional approach to education. Our journey as homeschooling parents is a unique one, and it’s vital that we embrace a holistic perspective when it comes to our children’s growth and development. Let’s dive into the idea of launching
Nurturing the Whole Child: A Holistic Approach to Education
In the world of homeschooling and education, it’s easy to get caught up in the academic aspects of teaching. We often find ourselves focusing on what our children need to know in terms of facts and figures, but it’s essential to step back and consider the bigger picture. What are
The Train Ride
“It’s such a pretty world today. Look at the sunshine, today and every day since I met you…” the music rang through my ears. And so began my life, where the world was mine to touch and discover and feel. The vehicle was life itself…wherever my two little legs
